

Traci's aunt Kay passed away on Saturday. She had been suffering from a lot of physical ailments for a while, so, even though we miss her and wish we had the chance to see her one last time, we know that she is now at peace.
I will remember two things about Kay. First, she could be really sassy. I don't think she was ever sassy to me, but I few times I witnessed that blazing fire in the Hoke blood that I love so much. Second, I will always remember when I went down for my first Hoke family reunion and how she treated me. Traci and I weren't engaged yet, and I had no idea why I had offered to go, because, despite everyone being pretty friendly, I was pretty spooked out at the level of committment I was displaying by being there. Kay, more than many other people, was extremely welcoming, friendly, and accepting of me. I'm pretty sure that she got an extra dose of schmoozing from me for that. As another part of her friendliness, after she'd known me for a few minutes, she insisted that she make me some of her famous Gumbo. She and Aunt Connie cooked it up the very next day, and it was amazing.
On Friday Traci and I went to SLC to watch the Joseph Smith movie as part of an Elder's Quorum activity. To be honest, I don't think about Joseph Smith as much as I should. I regard him as the first prophet of this dispensation, but I rarely stop to think about what that entails. I am glad we went, because the movie helped me think about Joseph in a different light.
During the movie, some of the more tender moments are when Joseph is shown playing with his children, helping putting them to sleep, being kind and loving towards his wife, and being respectful and tender with his parents and siblings. I realized that to go through everything he did--tar and featherings, being put into jail, beaten, etc.--and to submit his family and friends to similar persecution, must have meant that what he preached was true.
Lastly, we are looking forward to having Ma and Pa Sheen here this week!




